Emotionally immature parents are described as self-centered, reactive, and unable to meet their children’s emotional needs. They struggle with emotional regulation, often prioritizing their own feelings over those of others. Their behavior is characterized by being rigid, controlling, and resistant

The first time I brought up boundaries with a client, she frowned as if I’d suggested something rude. “I’m not trying to be selfish,” she said, shifting in her seat. “I just don’t want people to think I don’t care.”